I have a profound realization to share with all you beautiful souls, my fellow busy business-owning single mothers aged 40 and beyond. This revelation touches on a vulnerability that has lingered within me since childhood, stemming from those moments when I was corrected or scolded. I can still vividly recall my second-grade teacher's reprimands and the laughter of my classmates—a memory that sends shivers down my spine even now.
Whenever I find myself being corrected as an adult, I can't help but revert to that same feeling of a vulnerable 7-year-old girl, exposed to potential ridicule. It's as if I've been transported back to that classroom, and needless to say, it's an uncomfortable sensation.
But here's the twist: I now run my own business, and I fully understand that guidance and, yes, "constructive criticism," are vital components of personal growth and success. Therefore, I've chosen to confront this deeply rooted issue head-on. I've embarked on a journey to comprehend, heal, and conquer these insecurities.
I'm diving into various techniques, reading insightful articles, and seeking wisdom from those who've walked a similar path. I'm taking these steps because I believe in striving for a better version of myself, for the betterment of my business, and for enriching the cherished relationships in my life.
As I reflect upon past situations and relationships that I may have prematurely terminated due to feeling "attacked," I've come to realize that it wasn't an attack at all. It was an opportunity for personal growth and improvement.
So, I'm sharing this deeply personal journey with you because I wholeheartedly believe that each of us is on a unique path of self-discovery and empowerment. It's perfectly okay to acknowledge our vulnerabilities and actively work on them. It's not just okay; it's admirable to seek guidance and to learn from the experiences of others.
If you've ever felt a similar way, if you've ever hesitated to embrace constructive criticism or guidance, I extend a warm invitation to join me on this remarkable journey of growth and transformation. Together, let's support one another as we become the absolute best versions of ourselves.